How Effective is the Preteen Ministry in Your Church?

Children ServingI remember at the end of the school year being relieved that another year was completed in children’s and preteen ministry. If you are like me, I hoped to see preteens transition into student ministry by the end of the summer with a good spiritual foundation. The problem I was facing was a lot of my preteens started dropping off the map before they hit the end of their fifth or sixth grade years. Then I discovered a new way to keep them on track. We developed a leadership training process. This came in two major parts:

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What Is the Missing Element of Child Safety in Most Churches Today?

AdobeStock 165655712If you are like most children’s ministers, child safety is your top priority. In my 28+ years of serving in children’s ministry, I have sadly had to report some individuals from my church and the camp I directed who were accused of possible abuse with a child. This is serious business when serving on staff in a Christian organization. We required applications and background checks on every leader who served in children’s ministry. We also mandated online training on sexual abuse prevention. What you don’t realize is that the majority of those who are sex offenders have never been caught. Because of this, it is proven that background checks and applications don’t always work. I did a great job at training leaders, but I failed to train the children in my ministry to know what was and was not acceptable behavior for children, students, and adults.

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Six Spiritual Disciplines That Bring Transformation in the Lives of Preteens

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Over the past 15 years we have seen the lives of preteens changed in powerful ways once they know how to walk with the Lord daily. Through daily disciplines of lordship, prayer, Bible study, evangelism, ministering using their gifts and living a life of obedience to Christ they develop a life sustaining personal walk with Christ. In this video Dr. Clint May shares how you can teach life changing disciplines to children in your church which will bring spiritual change and set their spiritual foundation for life. 

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The Spiritual Battle for Children Is Won or Lost in the Children’s Ministry

AdobeStock 9321190 1I attended a preteen bridge conference several years ago. George Barna was speaking and shared something that really caught my attention. He said, “The spiritual battle for our children is won or lost in the children’s ministry.” This struck a nerve with me. If you are a children’s pastor, children’s director, preschool minister, or anyone involved in children’s ministry as a whole, you are in a battle. Barna, like many other leaders, is realizing how serious the battle for our children is today. During his 20+ years of research, he targeted adult behavior in the church. Then one day, reality struck. He shared, “Somehow, God managed to lift the veil from my eyes long enough for me to gain wisdom…It became painfully clear to me that I had been operating on the basis of some very faulty assumptions.”[1] What Barna found was the most successful ministries can be traced back to those who were wholeheartedly had an effective plan for children’s ministry.

This means that what you do is the most significant thing in your church. It’s not student ministry; it’s not adult ministry. It’s in the children’s ministry where the battle lines are forming. Knowing this, what should you do as a children’s pastor, children’s director, or ministry leader?

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